|Body Language of Sexual Attraction Between the Male and Female|
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Would you like to know if someone finds you attractive? Or do you fancy someone and want to let them know without actually telling them? Perhaps you want to send out the right signals to get a first date, or are ready for a relationship and want to attract someone on a night out with your friends?
When Lightning Strikes
So what happens when we encounter new people? It is well known that we make almost instant judgments when we meet someone new, and our emotional assessment is what is commonly known as ‘chemistry’.
Chemistry can be incredibly powerful between a male and female. It can erupt from nowhere upon first laying eyes upon someone, hitting you like a slap in the face! (Only much nicer an experience.) This is sometimes thought to be love at first sight – a male and female who have this experience may both refer to this as ‘we both just knew straight away.' If you have experienced this bolt of lightning chemistry experience then you will certainly know about it - there is definitely no denying it!
In fact, a friend of mine (whose name and gender shall remain confidential) said that they had so much chemistry with their partner that they could hardly look each other in the eye! It only takes about 400 milliseconds to trigger a response. Talk about being bowled over!
If you have experienced this bolt of lightning chemistry experience then you will certainly know about it – there is definitely no denying it!
So how do you know if someone is sexually attracted to you and are you aware of your own body language?
So if you are driven to distraction by the one you secretly admire and you can’t be doing with the sleepless nights until Valentine’s Day to make it known, then pay close attention to the object of your desire and if appropriate, make it happen! It can be very tricky being able to tell if someone is sexually attracted to you, although quite possible if you read their body language. What follows will hopefully help you determine when there is sexual attraction between a male and female. It is important to be aware that the speed at which the flirtation process takes place is varied dependent upon peoples' personalities. Personality affects body language and the speed at which people interact sexually. Extroverts are impatient and get bored more easily, whereas introverts will proceed more slowly and with caution.
Eyes are the Window to the Soul (Apparently)
Let us firstly look at eye contact. Eye contact can be used to convey sexual orientation. In fact, it may not only be a lingering look, but a visual probing. Eye contact plays a vital role in sexual attraction. Initially, eye contact is made between two people and then one looks away. This is because the person initiating eye contact does not want the other person to realise that they are interested in them. And then they wait to check out of the corner of their eye as to whether the other person is interested too! This usually happens at the outset when neither knows what the other person thinks, feels or wants – it is risky business.
Initiating a Conversation
The next step is to communicate verbally and not just with our bodies. I really do feel for men on this one, as I think it is still the case that we women believe men should make the first move and it must be scary fairy stuff! (Yet whilst I feel for them, I wouldn’t like to have to initiate!) Whoever initiates is taking a huge risk, but can probably tell whether he or she has permission by the response he or she receives, either verbally or by way of body language, or both.)